Chapter 1: Embracing the Journey

Life can often be compared to indulging in sweet-and-sour candies, where each experience brings a mix of joy and adversity.

In 1999, I entered medical school, and by 2007, I graduated, bringing immense joy to my family. The flood of congratulatory messages filled our home. However, many were unaware of the hurdles I faced during my academic journey, including failing several exams. There were times I had to retake classes, and I even dealt with illness.

When I finally passed the first part of my Canadian board exams, my phone rang off the hook with calls from family and friends. Some were aware of my struggles, while others had no idea. For those who were in the dark, the early mornings I spent studying often went unnoticed. I would leave for work at 4 a.m., aiming to squeeze in two hours of study before my boss arrived, who also had an early start.

Many were oblivious to the fact that I had signed up for the exam a year in advance, feeling unprepared due to insufficient study time. My schedule was erratic; on days when I overexerted myself, I found it difficult to study the following day. Weekends often turned into recovery time rather than study time.

To maximize my study efforts at work, I would listen to audio lectures while tackling less mentally demanding tasks. However, this multitasking was limited, as my office duties required full attention. Eventually, the cost of studying effectively led me to consider resigning.

Last week, I celebrated my third wedding anniversary and shared moments from the day on Instagram. Many sent their warm wishes, yet few knew the challenges hidden behind those smiles.

In my experience, a thriving marriage demands significant effort. It involves prayer and a commitment to love one another. During tough times, you see each other's imperfections, and that's when love can falter. It takes dedication to accommodate, compromise, and communicate effectively; those smiles often mask deeper struggles.

Three years prior, I underwent major surgery for the second time, during which I faced life-threatening complications. My family was deeply concerned for my well-being, and recovery took nearly a year. Now, I prioritize a healthy lifestyle, focusing on nutrition, sleep, and exercise. While my husband worries about starting a family, my main priority is maintaining my health.

For those familiar with life's realities, it is far from a smooth path; it can be a blend of sweetness and bitterness. Often, the sweet moments follow the salty and sour ones. True success carries the weight of struggles behind it. We don't always wear smiles; sometimes we frown or even shed tears.

Thanks to Jason Edmunds for the writing inspiration.

This article serves as a personal reflection and is intended for informational purposes. Please consult a professional if you require specific advice.

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Chapter 2: Seeking Inspiration

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